Surviving Motherhood One Year at a Time

Who watches and cares for your child?

2009-01-26T18:14:00.000-08:00

This is an important decision that every mom must encounter at some point. This can happen as early as two months or at 5 years, but the anxiety of leaving someone else in charge and care of the person that calls you mom is daunting. Many have the fortunate experience of family support, while others rely solely on themselves and/or spouses. Whatever the situation, responsibility of and individual to care for your child while you're at work (in or outside of the home) is important.

Being a mom is a great experience, but this question of who watches and cares for your child is challenging? Extensive background, database and referral search is only a percentage of the the pie. Overall, your instinct will help finalize your decision. Take Care and Good Night.

Ann
The Sharmooz

Wife or Mother: What's Harder? | Momversation

2009-01-12T20:11:00.001-08:00

Wife or Mother: What's Harder? | Momversation

Re-Focusing Mom Blog

2009-01-11T18:21:00.000-08:00

Fellow Bloggers and Readers

The Mommy Executive wishes everyone a Happy New Year. We are excited to start the year with a new focus and appeal. Last year had many challenges with juggling the Internet Social Network. Learning how to blog, why to blog, twitter, facebook and blog rolls (not a food, but sure sounds like one) and many more outlets to connect with fellow moms, bloggers, friends and networking buddies.

The main challenge is focusing and prioritizing on what matters most. Family is definitely at the top, but how to manage these great channels of communication without getting diverted from the main desired outcome. The desired outcome is to impact each other lives in a positive manner.

The Mommy Executive is learning from her own advice. Organize and re-organize for the new year. The Mommy Executive will focus on "Mom Features" of how women keep it together to help influence others to do the same and Organizing resources. The Sharmooz has a new blog dedicated the Virtual Tour and updates of the fast developing company.

Lessons have been well learned and would not be possible without the women on the online networking power. Thanks to all who have contributed to the growth of The Sharmooz.

Featured Mom

2008-12-07T09:50:00.000-08:00

Life has many challenges ...

Some people are able to overcome major obstacles and have a healthy, well balanced environment for themselves and family. Yvonne has triumphed over the loss of a parent, abuse as a child, educational short comings which has led her to inspire others to "Keep It Together" and help moms in similar situations. Here's her story . . .

Ann Diva Sharmooz

After a several wake-up calls, Yvonne started to want more out of life. She graduated from high school; however, when she tried to go to college, she failed the "basic" entry exam. Her and her mom, sat on her grandmother's front porch and studied day in and day out, she was determined to get the opportunity to further her education.

Yvonne Pierre graduated from a local community college with two associate degrees - Accounting and Business Management. She moved to Atlanta, GA in 1998. She now has two boys Zyair 16 and Zyon 6-years-old, Zyon was born with Down syndrome.

Yvonne took a leap of faith to start her company Zyonair’s Unlimited, LLC. However, after reading a several online group post from parents of special needs children, messages of how they struggle with accepting their own children, Yvonne was devastated and put her dreams on hold to started spreading Down syndrome awareness. She launched an online community to post inspirational stories involving special needs such as Autism, Down syndrome, and Cerebral Palsy to name a few. Feeling that that wasn’t enough she later launched an online radio show called The Yvonne Pierre Show to use as a platform to empower others through inspirational stories and information.

Yvonne has accomplished all of this and more without financial resources. How? She says,

“It is amazing how God is works. I was able to teach myself web and graphic design, in addition to the college degrees in Accounting and Business, fortunately I was able to do mostly everything myself. Things I couldn’t do I was able to barter services I need. I strongly believe that when God gives you a vision he provides you with what you need to bring it to life. There is no way I could have gotten this far without Him.”

Yvonne is currently working on releasing her first book under her publishing company Zyonair’s Unlimited, LLC. The book “The Day My Soul Cried” a nonfiction inspirational book is due out spring 2009.

She is also preparing to develop the works of Zyonair's Media Corporation is a nonprofit that will develop reading empowerment books, video, etc. specifically for, but not limited to, Down syndrome.

Yvonne Pierre currently resides in Metro Atlanta, GA with her two kids and best friend/mate of ten years, Steffan. She is currently in school working on her MBA. For more information or to contact Yvonne Pierre, visit www.zyonair.com, www.hyhradio.com, and www.myspace.com/hyhonline.

I am Super Woman, yes I am!

2008-11-29T19:56:00.000-08:00

As moms we tend to give without hesitation to our family and love ones. Sometimes the giving leads to juggling everything - family, work, play, church, etc. Can we have it all? What must be sacrificed? Is there a perfect equation or fixed to this Super Woman phenomenon? Here is one moms perspective of how she keeps it together. Click Here.

Ann Diva Sharmooz

First Book Review of Don't Rock That Baby! by Mom Spark

2008-11-23T16:39:00.000-08:00

Don't Rock That Baby! by Ann Tillage - Review & Giveaway! by Mom Spark

I had the pleasure of reading a copy of Ann Tillage's Don't Rock That Baby! The Other Advice: 46 Steps for Surviving the First Year of Motherhood.

This sweet, 60 page book is full of helpful tips (46 to be exact) perfect for the first-time mom who hasn't yet experienced sleep deprivation, childcare guilt or the joys of bonding with her little one. It is also great for us "experienced" moms who need a refresher course on how to deal with the screaming-puking-constant diaper changing-no rest for the weak-uncontrollable sobbing, joys of parenting an infant. Ann makes a point to sprinkle humor throughout her book, which helps one to remember that laughter really IS the best medicine in the toughest of times. (and what's tougher than parenting?)

What I found the most interesting about this read was Ann's "no rock policy." As the title of her book states, Ann believes in NOT rocking your baby. Controversial, yes, but I can see where she is coming from since I am still rocking my almost one year-old son to sleep, including in the middle of the night. I had never considered (or even heard of) her method before reading this book and I am now quite fascinated in learning more. You'll have to read the book to get the full scoop!

Even if you don't agree with the "no rock policy" (and you should at least hear her out), this book is definitely worth purchasing and sticking in your diaper bag for quick reference, packing in your suitcase on the way to the hospital, or giving to a new mom as a baby shower gift. You can purchase this book for the low price of $15.95 at www.dontrockthatbaby.com.

Overall, I really enjoyed this book as it was easy to read, informative and humorous. I believe it gives us moms the hope that we CAN and WILL survive the first year of "mommyhood," no matter the obstacles.

I would like to thank Ann Tillage for giving me the opportunity to read this! Don't forget that you can order her book at www.dontrockthatbaby.com! Ann is also the owner of the Sharmooz Company, which create luxurious satin gifts, so please check that out as well.

Now... on to the giveaway! Ann wants to give one lucky reader a copy of her book!

To enter, please leave a comment, telling us one important tip you would give to a new mom. Earn an extra entry by becoming, or already being a subscriber (please note in comment). You can subscribe here at Mom Spark. Giveaway will run until December 1st. Good luck!

Find Mommy Executive at MomDot

2008-11-23T11:46:00.000-08:00

MomDot is a mom blog listing site that is run by mommy bloggers, trisha, alicia, and bridgette.They run contests weekly, reviews on awesome (and not so awesome) products for family and kids, and talk about their lives. But more importantly, they feature bloggers and mom boutiques to give them an avenue to get thier name out there, also assisting in google links! You can head out and list your blog for free and talk to them about doing an interview about you. Head on over and see what MomDot is about!

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2008-11-20T21:04:00.001-08:00

2008-11-08T19:21:00.000-08:00

Hi Everyone!

My book, Don't Rock That Baby! The Other Advice: 46 Steps to Surviving the First Year of Motherhood, signings are going well.
I have a busy week approaching. I have two shopping venues at the:

Women's Center
Mistletoe Shopping Extravaganza

I am feeling overwhelmed and must keep reminding myself of organizing my thoughts, family and duties to make these events a success. I understand that we tend to shift our attention and not have proper balance in our home.

I would like to offer my FIRST GIVEAWAY. It is a simple simple Ebook on organizing your home.

Essential Guide to Organizing Your Home

Please Leave a Comment on this Blog and Submit your FREE book request to Sharmooz Contact List (Please write in comment box - free ebook) and I will forward this Organizing Your Home Ebook within 48 hours. We all need a little extra information. This is a great start. The holidays are approaching a this is good way to get the house in order. Offer will expire November 15th, 2008

2008-11-03T20:08:00.000-08:00

Don't Rock That Baby! The Other Advice:
46 Steps to Survive the First Year of Motherhood

The Book Send Off was s a good experience. I am continually learning, growing and expanding my opportunities. I have secured my book in two more stores - 11 and counting.

Today is another great moment for me. This is the year anniversary of
The Sharmooz Company.

The company was inspired by my children to develop exquisite satin gifts for the family.

Last year, I began with one product the Baby Sharmooz Satin Headrest. I now carry 10 products including the book. I am diversifying my family gift line and receiving referrals and invites to more boutiques.

Can we survive motherhood?

2008-10-21T20:29:00.000-07:00

Yes, we can. My book launch is approaching and the website http://www.dontrockthatbaby.com is up and running.

My book is available for purchase along with t shirts and onesies to assist your loved ones to abide by your wishes - Don't Rock That Baby!

I am very excited. I have three book signings for the month on November at

Smarty Pants Village Educational Upscale Boutique
U Silly Goose Upscale Children's Boutique
Sweet Wishes Gourmet Cupcakes

I will also participate in three shopping venues at Women's Wellness Center, Mistletoe Market and Holiday Chick Brunch. Needless to say, the next 5 weeks will be extremely business, yet fun.

Surviving Motherhood, in my opinion is more like Thriving through Motherhood.

Many challenges lie ahead, but there are sweet moments every mom will cherish. Thrive through motherhood, not just survive. Take Care Mommies and Goodnight.

Moving Forward

2008-10-02T22:56:00.000-07:00

The past month has been difficult dealing with Hurricane damage and trying to get back to "normal". I have been very busy with growing the business by adding new products and entering my lines into local Boutiques.

The Sharmooz Company now carries Infant Neck Support Pillows and a Most Requested Item:
Sharmooz Satin Head Wrap

This wrap can be used to maintain and protect hair styles and for our loved ones with medically induced hair issues; it has a comfortable, cooling effect. The satin is breathable with a silky feel. Medical and Hair Specialist has sworn by satin use for years. American Cancer Society

I have built new relationships with women who have the same drive and goals to be successful. During all this, I have written my first book.

Don't Rock That Baby!
The Other Advice: 46 Steps to Survive the First Year of Motherhood

I'm so excited. It is an overwhelming, yet a wonderful adventure!! My book launch and first signing will be on Nov. 3rd.!

Featured Mom

2008-08-29T11:28:00.000-07:00

I am Super Woman, Yes I am!

As moms we tend to give without hesitation to our family and love ones. Sometimes the giving leads to juggling everything - family, work, play, church, etc. Can we have it all? What must be sacrificed? Is there a perfect equation or fixed to this Super Woman phenomenon? Here is one moms perspective of how she keeps it together.

Ann Diva Sharmooz

A Whole New Respect! I was once a Manager of over 30 people…most of which were women. Obviously, a large portion of these women had a child or children. I always got so annoyed at the constant schedule changes, sudden request for time off due to an “illness” or their need to suddenly leave early. I mean…how hard can it be?!?!

These women were just using the fact that they had children to leave the office and go off and have fun somewhere else! Well, suddenly I had my own child. Fifteen months after that, I had my second child. Wonder Woman was not just a comic strip or TV character any longer.

Every Mom is a Super Mom, in my opinion. I started to gain a whole new respect for these women that once annoyed me. It was no longer “what’s so hard about it?!”…it now became “how the heck were they able to do it?” It took a while, but I started to master it. Two toddler boys…need I say more. I always thought stories of dueling tantrums was just an urban legend. You know…something that your Mother tells you to scare you from having children too close together. Well, let me tell you, my boys have taken me to every limit, every edge and to the end of my rope. With one boy jumping off the back of the couch and the other dumping his chocolate milk onto the floor…thank goodness for that one chemical in my brain that stops me from twisting them into little pretzels. To balance work and family has got to be one of the toughest jobs that exist on this planet.

I remember days when I was getting the boys ready to be dropped off at daycare/preschool. I would get their breakfast, change their diapers, change their clothes, brush their teeth, pack their lunches, get their blankets packed for naptime and then the extra 10 minutes was spent getting myself ready. After I dropped them off, I would be on my way to work going through the checklist in my mind…am I wearing my bra? How about underwear? Did I brush my teeth? Do my shoes match? Did I only put makeup on half my face again today? Whether you are a stay-at-home Mom, working part-time while a Mom or working full-time while a Mom…You are a Super Mom.

Rae Lynn Glispin, owner of Kidz Comfort. (http://www.kidzcomfort.com) Kidz Comfort is your place to find comforting products and tips to improve your child’s bedtime routine, making it more enjoyable for the whole family. Come see our exclusive Bed Bumpers for Big Kids!Coming Soon!

Organize It

2008-08-29T11:27:00.000-07:00

I like this site: List it Plan it!

More Information Coming Soon.

Giveaways & Reviews

2008-08-29T11:25:00.000-07:00

Cyber Monday is HERE!

Please visit these fine retailers for great deals and giveaways for the busiest
INTERNET shopping day of the year.

CYBER MONDAY DEALS!

2008-08-24T08:38:00.000-07:00

Simple Steps to Calm Your Fussy Baby

It’s everyone's fear - the fussy baby who requires constant attention. You can't put him down, talk on the phone, or cook dinner. Often times these babies don't nap or sleep for long stretches of time, making it even more taxing on you. Here are some tips to help you distract and entertain your fussy baby and preserve some sanity.

Learn your baby’s sleep cues and do everything you can to maximize his sleep – both naps and nighttime. Some amount of fussiness may be due to your baby being overtired.

Increase physical contact. Carry or wear your baby often. Fussy babies need this close proximity to mama and the sense of safety that it brings. For whatever reason they seem to need more help to regulate their temperament, control their emotions and settle themselves.

Change the location. Either leave the house or just step out the door. The change in air flow, temperature, light and sounds is often enough to distract a baby and help them calm down. This one can be a real benefit for your sanity as well.

Change the view. Look out a window or look in a mirror. Let your baby get close enough to touch his reflection. Wave and make faces. Play peek-a-boo by stepping out of sight from the mirror, then slowly stepping back over to the mirror so your reflections return.

Offer your baby varying textures to feel. Pat the Bunny is a great book of textures that my first son loved to gnaw on. Sadly, it didn’t last long so making your own collection of household items is a cheaper alternative. A soft Minkee ™ blanket, a scrap of fake fur, a piece of sand paper, a soft hairbrush, a wooden spoon or smooth textured a coffee mug are good choices. Just be sure to hold them so your baby doesn’t drop them on his face or put them in his mouth – especially the sandpaper.

Sensory experiences are the very best fussy busters, even as children age. Unfortunately at such a young age your options are limited. The sound and sight of running water can be enough. If your baby is sitting up by himself place a small amount of water on a cookie sheet then place that on a towel on the kitchen floor and let him splash in the water. If he’s not sitting up by himself you can turn on the faucet to a trickle then hold him close enough to put his hand in it and splash around. You can also take him in the bath or shower. Another sensory experience is to put your baby in his high chair and then put several spoons full of yogurt on the tray. Let him finger paint with it. Just be prepared for an involved clean-up when he’s done.

Sometimes music, especially if it’s familiar to him, can be a great fussy buster. Try various styles of music. Babies are individuals with their own preferences for things and can already have some pretty strong opinions!

Fussy babies are often the highly intelligent ones who love buttons. Try holding your older baby close to the light switch and show him how to flip it. Babies also love buttons to push. Bebe Sounds makes a great fussy buster called the Baby Buzz’r that has a baby-safe mirror, soft ears to chew, and fun buttons for your baby to push which make it play music (but not too loudly), vibrate, and light up (but not too brightly). What I love about it is that it’s not over stimulating with super bright lights and way-too-loud sounds like other battery-operated baby toys.

Try visual stimulation. With a quick trip to the fabric store you can find fleece or cotton in bright primary colors or black and white, bold patterns. Cotton fabrics need the edges finished with a straight stitch to keep them from unraveling but fleece can simply be cut and used. These are great for playing peek-a-boo with your baby.

This last trick for babies about 6 months and up should be reserved only for special occasions since it needs to be used infrequently to keep it effective. Create a fussy basket for times when you need to cook dinner and make phone calls. Include things like a soft hair brush, fake fur scraps, a baby-proof mirror, a teething toy, a drinking water bottle filled with beans or brightly colored beads and the lid sealed with a glue gun, a baby food jar with water, a teaspoon of corn syrup and glitter and the lid sealed shut with a glue gun, cold & warm items, bright colored nesting bowls, a television remote with battery door taped shut so the batteries can’t come out, a disconnected keyboard with lots of buttons to push, a rubber spatula, a wooden spoon, a metal bowl or a metal pan lid. Leave the items in the basket or box so your baby can discover them one by one while taking them out.

Remember that fussiness won’t last forever and those same traits that make him fussy – persistence, intelligence and sensitivity - will make him a great person.

About the Author:

Annette lives in Seattle with her husband Jared, sons Max and Lander, and their faithful flat-coated retriever. She is now a work-at-home-mom (WAHM) and founder of Moms in Clogs, makers of Pollywog brand products. Unable to find products beneficial for infant reflux, she designed the patented Pollywog nursing wedge and changing station incliner. Her website, http://www.pollywogbaby.com provides practical advice, home remedies and support to help manage infant reflux and colic.

First Entry

2008-08-12T17:45:00.000-07:00

Hello Fellow Bloggers,

My name is Ann, the owner and inventor of Sharmooz Luxuries.

My patent pending Baby Product may reduce and/or eliminate infant balding. The name "Sharmooz" comes from Charmeuse Satin (a shiny, soft, & high quality fabric).

All of my products are made of luxurious satin, which all babies (and Diva Babies) love! Satin has been used for years in care of dry skin and hair problems. The medical community also recommends its use for medically induced via medications or procedures leading to hair loss. I had an A - HA moment with my second child. I have always used satin to protect hair, then why not for babies. The Sharmooz was Born!!

This is my first experience with blogging. I look forward to the rewards and challenges it may bring!!